Worse than delivering a joke that falls flat is delivering a present that offends. Offensive presents induce not just embarrassment but guilt as well, a guilt that can flame up and redden cheeks even years after. Once I spearheaded a group gift of an adult tricycle for my mother, who was less ready to give [...]
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Seemed like a thoughtful gift at the time
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