poems

Thanksgiving break

If I had any sense I’d be in the kitchen right now, chopping and endlessly washing mixing bowls and spatulas. Instead I’m sitting at the computer. I’ll pay for it tomorrow with panic and exhaustion, but meantime, here’s a few poems for Thanksgiving.   At the grocery store I left Czeslaw Milosz’s”Encounter” in an empty […]

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Sisterhood of the Traveling Onion

The Travelling Onion by Naomi Shihab Nye   “It is believed that the onion originally came from India. In Egypt it was an object of worship —why I haven’t been able to find out. From Egypt the onion entered Greece and on to Italy, thence into all of Europe.” — Better Living Cookbook   When […]

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Debbie does Bethany Beach

Alba by Jack Gilbert   After a summer with happy people, I rush back, scared, gulping down pain wherever I can get it.     I don’t like all my nicknames, but I can’t say I don’t deserve them. Debbie Downer is the one I earned for introducing grit to conversations of spun sugar. And […]

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My secret pleasure, revealed

I’m a stickler about thank-you notes, a real pain to my children after birthdays and Christmas, and self-righteous and judgey when my own presents aren’t acknowledged. And yet, as with other deep and firmly-held beliefs, I can be a hypocrite about applying the rules to myself. Which is all to confess that I haven’t sent […]

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You will see a tall, dark tooth

  Your baby grows a tooth, then two, and four, and five, then she wants some meat directly from the bone. It’s all   over: she’ll learn some words, she’ll fall in love with cretins, dolts, a sweet talker on his way to jail. And you,   your wife, get old, flyblown, and rue nothing. […]

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Mad Men and the mad poet

Last night I went to bed with Don Draper on my mind (Mad Men fans will understand) and woke up with Rosemary Tonks. Tonks is the eccentric British poet I discovered recently who seems as self-destructive and tortured as Don. – In Sunday’s Mad Men finale, Don has a breakdown at a hippie retreat center […]

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