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Thanksgiving break

If I had any sense I’d be in the kitchen right now, chopping and endlessly washing mixing bowls and spatulas. Instead I’m sitting at the computer. I’ll pay for it tomorrow with panic and exhaustion, but meantime, here’s a few poems for Thanksgiving.   At the grocery store I left Czeslaw Milosz’s”Encounter” in an empty […]

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Fall clean-up

Here’s the thing about my small folder of poems about death. Having more than one poem about death is like  getting a bag of zucchini from your neighbor—you don’t know what to do with an overload. (I’m just realizing this very second that owning, not to mention labeling,  a small folder of poems about death is […]

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Sisterhood of the Traveling Onion

The Travelling Onion by Naomi Shihab Nye   “It is believed that the onion originally came from India. In Egypt it was an object of worship —why I haven’t been able to find out. From Egypt the onion entered Greece and on to Italy, thence into all of Europe.” — Better Living Cookbook   When […]

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Letting go, holding back

      For My Daughter by Grace Paley I wanted to bring her a chalice or maybe a cup of love or cool water      I wanted to sit beside her as she rested after the long day     I wanted to adjure commend   admonish      saying don’t do that […]

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Debbie does Bethany Beach

Alba by Jack Gilbert   After a summer with happy people, I rush back, scared, gulping down pain wherever I can get it.     I don’t like all my nicknames, but I can’t say I don’t deserve them. Debbie Downer is the one I earned for introducing grit to conversations of spun sugar. And […]

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My secret pleasure, revealed

I’m a stickler about thank-you notes, a real pain to my children after birthdays and Christmas, and self-righteous and judgey when my own presents aren’t acknowledged. And yet, as with other deep and firmly-held beliefs, I can be a hypocrite about applying the rules to myself. Which is all to confess that I haven’t sent […]

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You will see a tall, dark tooth

  Your baby grows a tooth, then two, and four, and five, then she wants some meat directly from the bone. It’s all   over: she’ll learn some words, she’ll fall in love with cretins, dolts, a sweet talker on his way to jail. And you,   your wife, get old, flyblown, and rue nothing. […]

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