A two-poem salute to fathers on this Father’s Day 2019. With poems as wonderful as these, that’s as good as twenty-one guns.
This excerpt from Walt Whitman’s “Leaves of Grass” belongs in the wild, in air cleaned fresh by summer rain. But with no countryside excursion possible, I taped the poem to the edge of a fountain called “Orpheus” on the campus of a private school, Cranbrook.
The father in the poem is nearly as mythic a figure as Orpheus, the god of music. Tall, tan, handsome, wise, father of sons and grandfather of sons (and only incidentally, in Whitman’s view, father of daughters), vigorous, kind, a non-drinker—here is an iconic American man, his virility expressed as much in his calm presence as in his progeny.
As more of a fault-finder than halo-maker, I have never met such a man, but I sure would like to—
You would wish long and long to be with him, you would wish to sit by him in the boat that you and he might touch each other.
[A word about the statues in the fountain: the figures depict ordinary people (except for one representing Beethoven) listening to music. All were originally from Sweden and part of a set that included a 38-foot Orpheus playing music in the center. The founder of Cranbrook School, newspaperman George Booth, didn’t include the center god figure because he wanted the fountain to be “democratic, equal, and American.” Very Whitman-esque!]
You can read the complete poem here. See section 3.
The second poem features a grandfather too, but this granddad is the proud forefather of a female. I set Miller Williams’ “A Poem for Emily” outside a barbershop. (Link here for a version easier to read than my photograph.)
poem is under barbershop pole, in front of magazine
The creepiness of the picture below was not intentional. I was aware it might seem creepy to photograph strangers getting their hair cut, so I left the poem where I would not be noticed which happened to be under the gaze of this creepy fellow:
Because there is nothing creepy and everything beautiful about a grandfather seeing his baby granddaughter for the first time. He thinks forward to the years ahead, imagines her growing up and growing apart from him. He leaves her two gifts, this poem and his love which, in the great tradition of poems and in the sacred nature of love, live on forever.
I wrote this down, a thing that might be kept
awhile, to tell you what I would have said
. . . which is I stood and loved you while you slept.
Oh my heart! Is there anything more comforting than that? To be looked upon and loved while you sleep? I think of my husband standing in the children’s doorways . . . I think of my father checking on us in our beds nearly every night . . . I think of how many fathers have done, do now, and will do. . . bless them all!
Bless especially those fathers who have lost children. They are on my mind today.
Happy Fathers Day all!
You have brought such richness into today!
I sit reading while gazing west over the Blue Ridge, and thinking about my father, who is confused with Alzheimer’s today, and my grandson, who will be 1 year old next month.
________________________ Julia Ralston Website | Instagram
What a poignant moment…..one mind winding down, the other winding up, you in the middle, loving both. Thanks, Julia!
Both beautiful and beautifully placed poems. I couldn’t help smiling after reading the first poem. After reading the second, I couldn’t help crying, remembering the fathers that have come and gone in my own life. Thank you!
My reactions exactly. Thanks for reading, Indigo!